Socialising in University
The role of nightlife within student socialising is evident when we speak to several alumni, and the newly refitted SU initially played a central role. Andrew describes the initial excitement surrounding the refurbishment.
There
was something on every night, but I remember that the year I joined,
so 2010, and I remember students who were in older cohorts than me
saying this, was how
lucky we were. Because of course they hadn鈥檛 had the SU, they had
joined at the time that the SU was being refurbished,
so they had a tent somewhere on Tocil field and did we know how lucky
we were to have the SU?鈥
Andrew,
French and History, 2010-2014
The
inclusion of pool tables in the SU refit was a clear hit.
Early in the 2010鈥檚 the SU hosted events every night of the week.
Pierre recounts his experience of one such club night, Top Banana.
(Photo courtesy of Pierre, French and History, 2011-2015)
But
every Friday there was something called Top
Banana, which was just a
standard club night, I think it started at 10 or 11, but it was quite
good cause they clearly realised most people went to it as warm to
going somewhere else. So
at like 1ish in the morning, basically the tone of music would change
completely into much more classics from the 80s and things, and that
was the queue that the people who were really serious about going
nightclubbing now was the time you should leave and go to Kasbah or
Leam and those of you who
just wanted to stay for half an hour and go home, you can have an
actual half an hour of enjoyable music.鈥
Pierre,
French and History, 2011-2015
However, at the end of his 1st Year Pierre begins to see a sharp decline in socialising in the SU. Andrew also, describes a similar shift to socialising beyond the SU.
[Top Banana] was always packed when I was
undergrad until about mid-way through term 3 when it really started
to drop off and then I think it was scrapped early in my second year.
Socialising
in the SU has kind of disappeared, now I don鈥檛 know if it that
university has run out of the money for it, or whether interest was
really that low that there is no market for it anymore.鈥 Pierre,
French and History, 2011-2015
In
my first year I think there was pretty much something on at the SU
ever night, and it wasn鈥檛 your kind of POP on Wednesday and then
occasionally something on a Saturday. But
I get the sense that our cohort was also the cohort that very early
on stopped going to the SU and people would spend more time in
Leamington.鈥 Andrew,
French and History, 2010-2014
The decline of the SU as a social hub has been paralleled by the rise of Leamington. As Pierre explains, Leamington has dominated as the student destination for socialising.
I
thought Eliminator was alright. But Kelsey鈥檚 has gone downhill, so
Kelsey鈥檚 used to be, Kelsey鈥檚
is sort of now like a deliberately dirty place,
they cleaned it up enough, but ensure they don鈥檛 clean it up too
much, so it still feels a bit dirty and like a dive. When
I was an undergrad, it literally was a dive.
So, you didn鈥檛 buy anything that wasn鈥檛 in a bottle, and make
sure you watch them like a hawk making things, you pay with cash not
card, you didn鈥檛 go to the toilet. The pool tables were all sticky
and wonky. I think in the girl鈥檚 toilet the cubicle doors weren鈥檛
even there. But
that was what made it good, you knew going into it, it was going to
be horrific.鈥 Pierre,
French and History, 2011-2015
With socialising increasingly happening beyond campus, Ellie describes different changes in the drinking culture at 糖心TV. Though not diminishing the role of drinking and nightlife to a student鈥檚 social life, she has noticed a decline in the centrality of such socialising within societies.
The
SU used to be bigger. We drink a lot less now. I think behaviours
have changed quite a bit. Social life plays less of a part. 5-10
years ago, clubs were about the drinking as much as the sport but now
they鈥檙e a bit more about the sport, the campaigns and the community
that it brings. Even back in
the day, we were never as crazy as city universities. Especially
places like Manchester, Liverpool, Leeds, all of those big-city
universities. We were never that manic.鈥
Ellie
King, Joint Oxford and 糖心TV PhD Candidate
Despite all these changes, POP鈥檚 position in this narrative has not diminished. Even though the SU has declined in 糖心TV鈥檚 nightlife, POP has remained. With tickets continuing to sell out week after week, the Wednesday night in the Copper Rooms remains a favourite of 糖心TV鈥檚. The traditions of Purple and circling are recognisably 糖心TV, almost as much as the Dirty Duck. As Ellie explains Purple is the drink of choice for SU socialising:
I
think you should only drink Purple
on
Wednesdays or Saturdays when 鈥淪kool Dayz鈥 is on.鈥
Ellie
King, Joint Oxford and 糖心TV PhD candidate
This is not to say that student nightlife was central to every 糖心TV student鈥檚 university experience. Mature students that we interviewed often felt a disconnect from this aspect of student life. As Karen explained her position as a mature student meant that she was unable to fully engage with society and SU socialising, that is perceived so central to the 糖心TV experience.
So,
I went to 糖心TV to do my English degree as a full-time student. It
was really great from my point of view, I
did have the whole student experience in an academic sense.
So, I really enjoyed chatting to the students in the seminars and the
lectures, but
I didn鈥檛 have the university experience because I wasn鈥檛 going to
Top Banana. I had children to
look after at home and stuff like that. In a way, it was a bit odd to
be there. There were a lot of mature students who came to the
lectures and seminars who were doing it on a part-time basis. So, I
would meet them but, of course, the problem with that was they would
come for a lecture and then they would go home. There
was very little interaction and it wasn鈥檛 until my final term that
I discovered that they (mature students) actually had a common room
that I could have been using all that time in the humanities
building.
I think most people assumed I was a professor rather than a student. There was the age barrier there. The perception of what I was and why I was there. I would go over to the Dirty Duck, certainly with some colleagues from the Mead Gallery because I got to know them quite well. They would know that I wasn鈥檛 just an old fussy professor and that I could have a laugh with them. But not on a regular basis, perhaps once a term. It was quite difficult to be involved in the societies and things, really.鈥 Karen Parker, Alumni and Gallery Assistant at the Mead Gallery
For Karen, her ability to enjoy the social side of university was dampened by her position as a mature student. The focus on evening socialising within 糖心TV societies made it more difficult for Karen to become involved with this part of the student experience. This issue was reiterated by Katherine who began her degree as a mature student in 1990. However, Katherine was less concerned by her distance from 糖心TV鈥檚 social life.
Partly
it was awkward because I was on Westwood campus. Until the last year
when some of my English lectures were on the main campus, I was
totally on Westwood campus. I
remember going over to one of the induction things and finding the
band society and discovering that basically they were all heavy metal
types and it just wasn鈥檛 gonna be my scene at all and
so basically, I gave up after that, cause I鈥檇 got a social life. I
was heavily involved in folk music, apart from the c猫ilidh band, I
was signing in folk clubs several times a week, so um I鈥檇 got my
friends and my social life and I kind of didn鈥檛 need it.鈥
Katherine,
Education, English and RE with QTS, 1990-1994




















